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Am I alone?   2/3/2004

I'm a 45yo male, always been straight, happily married with family etc.Recently I've been fantasising about dressing in sexy women's clothes(stockings, heels etc)and sucking a guys cock, and maybe even letting him fuck me.The idea of m/m sex as a man doesn't excite me, just the crossdressing part.Anyone else in AFFland like me?If so, I could use some help.


2 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
Getting More Women Members   2/3/2004

AdultFriendFinder, take a page from some of the really good dating services. Give women free memberships in at least the Silver area. The ratio of men to women will get more men to sign up just to be able to contact the women who will join if they don't have to pay. Or at least offer half price for women.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 20 Votes ,7.72 Score
adult entertainment business   2/3/2004

Hey!!!! I am wondering if anyone knows how to look into getting started in the adult entertainment business..I am interested in finding some info I just have no idea where to start..if you have any info. please let me know! thanks!


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
dacrazy19 36 M
0  Articles
having a moral conflict   2/2/2004

okay, I work at a movie theater in Queens, and the other day this really hot girl came in with her friend. Me and one of my friends/coworkers were admiring her for a minute, and then when the food we ordered came, he suggested that I go talk to her. Normally, and he knows this, I shy up about talki to girls, but he wasn't going to let me get away with it this time, so he nudged me into ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
Love small breasts   2/2/2004

Help me out here. Almost all the profiles are searching for big cocks or big boobs. Are'nt there any women out there who are proud of their small or non-existent breasts. some of us men are turned on and excited by the tiny, firm little ones. Stand up and be proud of your tiny ones, and while you're at it, E me!!! Kurt


0 Comments, 12 Views, 14 Votes ,6.82 Score
rm_blossom33178 47 C
1  Article
Women going to strip clubs   2/2/2004

For women to find the right strip club to have fun at is hard. The best ones we have found and we have been all over the country is in the ST.louis area, manily PT's strip club. After midnight its about 50 % women and 50 % men, lots of couples and single girls, have fun.


1 Comments, 246 Views, 10 Votes ,6.17 Score
3Way   2/2/2004

My girl and I have talked about 3way sex before and we are both interested, but can not agree how to find the person. I feel that we should build a relationship with the girl first, but her thoughts are more geared toward meeting someone online and just doing it. I don’t know what the best way is to go about this, I would be more comfortable with someone that I know, but she thinks ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Re: what do you do if your wife isnt into sex as much as you?   2/2/2004

The original author complained that his wife didn't like sex as much as he did, and that she only liked basic missionary while he liked a variety of things. <br> In answer to the first problem (difference of sex drives) I can only say to deal with it. If sex drives were in synch there would be a lot less cheating and infidelity in the world. <br> To answer the second ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
nightdragon1984 38 M
1  Article
what do you think.   2/2/2004

ok i have never done this befor. i have been with the same girl for the last 2 years. She is the only person i have had sex. I would like to try a three some and see how a nother girl would be. i just dont know how to ask her.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ravenstarr33610 50 F
2  Articles
how do i tell my best friend no?   2/1/2004

how do i tell my best friend without hurting him that i donot want to have an intimate relationship with him nor do i want to become his girlfriend. he has been pursuing me for the 13 years that we have known each other and i have never let it go beyond friendship. dont get me wrong he is a wonderful person but i have expressed to him that i dont want to be more than friends. he keeps ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Why is the female orgasm so difficult sometimes?   2/1/2004

Why is it that for a man it's no doubt that they'll be able to get off, but for a woman to orgasm it takes like three times the effort?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
rm_janpetat 74 M
5  Articles
Privat chatroom   2/1/2004

I have a private chatroom but I do'nt know haw to invite some one in it for a chat. Is there a nice persone who will help me with this? I'm a standard member.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
Cum load   1/31/2004

How do i increase the size of my load?


0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
playwithus3822 57 C
1  Article
Re: Do women want to see men's junk on here?   1/31/2004

No, we don't. Or at least I don't. I mean, it's not like having a picture of your cock on your profile will make me NOT respond to you, but it's never once made me REALLY WANT to respond. In fact, pictures of really big cocks have inspired me not to respond because I'm not sure if I can handle it. So don't think that just because yours is big, we'll love you. And if it's small, why ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
rm_sexbius 60 T
2  Articles
So, you did not get a response and wonder why   1/31/2004

I guess I've been lucky with the response we have had after we posted some sexy pictures. After we posted pics it increased the views to our profile by 20 times than we had with no pics posted. Well the point is when you have more people that view you, you will get more response. Either with a wink, added to their hotlist or with an e-mail from them. In one day we had 31 e-mails saying ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
big hole   1/31/2004

how do you know if you're considered to have a big hole or not?


0 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
lahotgirl4u75 52 C
4  Articles
To All Men Whose Wives Have Had Babies Recently..   1/30/2004

I see all of these guys writing in saying that their wives just had , whether it was a month ago or a year ago, and I thought I would shed some light on the situation since I have been there before. Almost 10 years ago I had my ..I was 18 back then and got married 2 months after he was born..Back when we were dating, when I was pregnant, my hubby and I did it every day..And when I say every ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
What's the difference?   1/30/2004

It seems that most people understand what the term "safe" sex is but I have been running across the phrase "safer" sex a lot..and it doesn't seem to imply abstinence or non performance...any thoughts?


0 Comments, 55 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Premature ejectulation or male multiple orgasims?   1/30/2004

Like many men out there I had a problem with not lasting as long as I wanted. I looked everywhere and found some good advice. this involved some toys, drugs, and liquer. But the best advice was also the most simple: Excercise, relax, and practice. I will leave the details to the books and services who deserve the revenue from thier research. <br> But I found out something else ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
antiek 76 M
1  Article
Difference of a man & a woman   1/29/2004

The difference of a man and a woman goes back to the beginning of time. A man has a strong sex life generally through life to produce a off spring while women in modern times want a man who can provide for the family that why in modern times it is money. She will do what a man wants, sex at first until marriage and a then she becomes a mother not a sex object for the man while the man ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
I need opinions about using protection for 3somes   1/29/2004

Hi there. I'm a 36f and have been with the same partner for about 18 years and we want to have a threesome. Since I am new at this, my question is, if I were to be involved in a threesome, is it alright to ask the other person to use protection? I am looking forward to hearing some opinions on this. Thanks!


0 Comments, 68 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_saetia 56 F
1  Article
Orgasms affect my hearing!   1/29/2004

Okay, so I have sent this in to Maxim and Playboy but neither have responded. I am a 37yo female who has VERY intense orgasms that affect my hearing...I lose most of my hearing for several minutes to hours after cumming really hard. I want to know what causes this and if it happens to other people! <br> Thanks, <br> Deaf Sexy girl !


2 Comments, 321 Views, 12 Votes ,6.69 Score
rm_5069103 61 M
3  Articles
HOW-TO's: male-to-female   1/28/2004

HEY (FEMME)GUYS: as another genetic male that's considered myself "Transgendered" since a pre-, here's my advice to you. Do an online search under "transgender" in your area for you to find support groups that you can visit/join to help you with your desires to dress/behave/appreciate the female sex. While society accepts women that act, behave and dress as men, we T-Girls need and DESERVE ...


3 Comments, 444 Views, 35 Votes ,6.59 Score
Am I that bad   1/28/2004

Short, sweet, and to the point! i have been a member for about 3 months and have yet to have a date or for that matter any bites..... Am I doing something wrong or did I say the wrong things. Let me know how I can meet some ladies....


0 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Nfriend2ve 46 F
4  Articles
RE: Test Cum   1/28/2004

Oh yes and it goes wit the saying "you are what you eat"! Most men worries when their girlfriend refuse to give them blow jobs, but ignore them when they say "honey do you mind smoking for a while?" nicotine make sperm test and smell bad so who would like to swallow them. So guys avoid things like too much garlic, onions, smoking etc. Pineapple give the sperms the best test. Most important ...


1 Comments, 127 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
Nfriend2ve 46 F
4  Articles
RE: How do I meet people   1/28/2004

I have met quiet a lot of great people from this site. As it turns out most of them just happen to be on here because of a pop up or sitting bored in the office and surfing. Although it is an adult website I real suggest to be naked ONLY if you have one of those playboy magazine men's body. I have seen a lot of penises on here which were real a turn off, they just look ugly! So avoid ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
QueenKashmire 41 F
6  Articles
Tips for making contact with someone you like   1/27/2004

1. Wink (wait for wink back) 2. Add to hotlist (wait for it back) 3. Make contact (wait for it back) 4. Invite to each other's network 5. Live happily ever after <br> Don't send me an invite to your damn network (where I keep my most personal pictures) if you haven't taken the time to get to know me, period. <br> The following is taken from my auto-response ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
Once you discover you're a submissive, Learn as much as you can...   1/27/2004

Now that you’ve discovered this wonderful thing about yourself, it’s time to learn more about yourself. READ... READ…READ… <br> I cannot stress this enough. Take the time to learn all the different aspects of D/s, S/M, or the all-encompassing BDSM. You don’t have to like pain, but if you do, that’s fine too. So explore. What’s ...


0 Comments, 340 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
Meeting others in the BDSM lifestyle...   1/27/2004

Okay. Now you’ve read every website you can find and every book you could get your hands on. It’s time to talk to other people in the lifestyle. Go to local munches and meetings (if there are any near you), and meet others in the lifestyle. Too many times, people are terrified to go to these things because they don’t know what to expect. They fear they’ll say ...


0 Comments, 270 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Dom/mes are not mind-readers...   1/27/2004

In getting to know your partner, he or she will be learning about you too. It is “imperative” that you be completely honest not only with him or her, but with yourself as well. Tell him or her what you need, what you’re interested in, what you’re afraid of, what you might want to try some time in the future, but perhaps aren’t ready for yet. If you are ...


0 Comments, 209 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score