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bigfella626 63 M
2  Articles
FINALIZATION   11/28/2005

People when you break up with someone please finalize it.The worst thing you can do is leave that window of opportunity there.On most occasions when you try relieve the past you only bring more hurt into your life.Or cause hurt to the people you have in your life at the time.


0 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
eroticcyclist 57 M
2  Articles
What hurts is   11/27/2005

The loss. The loss. The loneliness that can follow. Sure sometimes its the sexual void, but that is nothing that can't be easily cured if that is all that is gone for you. It's the emotional pain for me. I'm a man and I don't have a stiff upper lip when I feel pain. I don't think I should either. Beyond that what may be most upsetting is not knowing what happend, what she is basing ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
rm_Shinbo82 41 M
3  Articles
good lie   11/26/2005

isnt it great when you break up and your new EX just said lets be friends when the next thing you know she'll just ignore you.


2 Comments, 112 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_amayajo 41 F
4  Articles
Why Is Breaking Up so Hard to Do   11/25/2005

As everyone else on this site has experienced a breakup I felt inclined to bring about mine. The moral of the story is that you should always feel safe in a relationship. I had a very hard relationship my last years of high school and was looking to have a rebound guy(sounds bad I know). Ironically I found it in an old friend who had moved away. Little did I know, he was a bit unstable. He ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
Why can't people be honest about themselves and STDs.   11/25/2005

I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership. I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little bit of) the local male competition I have with men within my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB. <br> After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing to a few select women, my ...


0 Comments, 532 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
rm_Mz_thick2 47 F
33  Articles
Y can't u let go   11/24/2005

Y is it so hard for some people to let go once u have said it is over????????


0 Comments, 130 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
She had me wrapped around her finger   11/24/2005

WHY DOES SHE KEEP MAKING MY LIFE MISERABLE. SHE MOVED ON WITH OTHERS BUT CAN'T LET ME. WHEN IS IT REALLY OVER?


0 Comments, 122 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
this sucks   11/23/2005

im only doing this so i can get some points so dont waste ur time reading what i already worte and if u did then ur an idiot...shit im supprised ur still reading this seriously, im only doing this to get points


1 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
themisskrissy 57 F
4  Articles
The Yellow Blanket   11/21/2005

Creamy butter yellow fleece. (did he say it was made out of recycled pop bottles?) A blanket stitch of royal blue all around the perimeter, so warm and soft. <br> The blanket has not been washed for a while. Not since before the last time she took it away on a trip. She won’t wash it now. <br> All she feels she has left of him is wrapped up in the memories of the ...


1 Comments, 109 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
slimnjuicy4eva 124 M
2  Articles
Can't let go   11/21/2005

My boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs but since last month things haven't been going really well he doesn't want to have sex most of the time that i do and he wasn't like this before i think he's fu**ing someone else and he's start lying about his whereabouts so i told him to stop visiting me and stop calling me but i miss him so much when he don't so as soon as he call and ask if ...


3 Comments, 151 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_BBWRSEXY21 40 F
2  Articles
getting back   11/19/2005

Dont u just hate it when u find out ur boyfriend has ben cheating on u? well girls dont take it laying down!! do something about, go find his worst enemy, the person he cant stand the most. And then have wild and dirty sex with him!! He will be so mad lol, and u get revenge and great sex, lol!! have fun and be safe


1 Comments, 177 Views, 16 Votes ,1.66 Score
Friend or FOE?   11/18/2005

Hello again, I would like to know some opinions on breaking up and being friends afterwards please. <br> I have found myself in this situation twice now in the past 3 yrs where i break up with a girl and she at first refuses to accept it and then later wants to remain part of my life as a friend. <br> Being a soft hearted kind of bloke i tend to oblige, but it seems like ...


3 Comments, 122 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
cock4uky2005 43 M
1  Article
ITS NOT HARD TO DO   11/18/2005

many ways to do it, phone, email IM . What do you think is best? I prefer to do it in person but im old fashion in that way


0 Comments, 69 Views, 3 Votes
rm_babycasper33 53 M
3  Articles
Friends   11/16/2005

when u break up should u stay friends


1 Comments, 104 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
why so hard   11/15/2005

why is it so hard to get out and get back into the game after you have been through a bad break up? is it that i'm afraid of getting hurt?


1 Comments, 85 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
Only the Lonely Know   11/13/2005

We met in college, married, had , sent them off to college and then started swinging. When our first was barely a year old, we had a 3some with a guy we met. It was fun. He was well endowed also, and she enjoyed being, as she put it "wore out". About 3 days later, with my blessings, she fucked him again. Then we never did anything else but reminese and talk about how good it had been. ...


1 Comments, 367 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
?   11/12/2005

when u break up with some 1 do u say we can still b friends


1 Comments, 229 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
ThickWitIt1980 44 F
9  Articles
"The Breaks!"   11/7/2005

I am a 25 year old female who has only had one real relationship in my life, I met him when I was 20 he was working at his parents restaurant and I was taking a lunch break from taking my drivers test at the DMV across the street. He was cleaning all the tables around me hundreds of times till he finally asked me out and I said YES!!! After chatting him up on and off all that day I returned ...


4 Comments, 195 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
Is sex important?   11/6/2005

I really dont have a very horny girlfriend, but she is so great in every other way. For this reason i am seeking out this site to meet someone for just sex. I wonder how many other people are in this position


0 Comments, 153 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
I thought I had the power of goodbye!   11/4/2005

I managed to get out of both my long term relationships but I find my current one of only 4 months difficult to let go. With the earlier two, love was apparent almost immediately but with this one, neither of us have even uttered the words. The problems we are experiencing are on-going and started just 2 months into the relationship. All the signs tell me this will never work. I've tried to ...


4 Comments, 224 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_93065_guy 41 M
2  Articles
6 years gone...   11/3/2005

Just broke up after 6 years...boy it sucks...I wonder if its a bad thing to screw my ex...any thoughts??


0 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
   2005-10-31

Those are the words that my wife of 15yrs told me just a month ago.I`ve been lied to for at least the last year of our marriage, so it seemed even more of a coincedence that she left me dangling for about a month and finaaly made her decision about our future just 3 days after all the bills were paid for the month...neat huh? I also am going through the greiving process and it`s hard to understand this whole thing. She has told mutual friends that she wished I was a cheater or abusive or a gambler, a bad Dad, or a drunk, so she would at least have a good reason besides the fact that she "Fell out of Love" I did unfortunately work 3 jobs in order to keep up with our bills and one of the jobs involved working as a traveling musician, but only working about 50 to 60 dates a year. The problem was she had grown used to me being gone and decided that she was tired of taking care of everything when I was away.It caused resentment and the resentment caused the falling out of love. My 10 yr old daughter, I`m afraid will be the one who will suffer the most, as her world has unexpectedly been turned upside down.I feel like I let her down by being away and causing her Mom to fall out of love. So in closing, be honest with your mate, and live your life together like it might be your last together....because one way or another someday it will be.


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Singing_pleasure 38 M
10  Articles
breaking up   11/2/2005

i cant stand breaking up thats the worst part of the relationship...lol


1 Comments, 97 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
soccergodguti 46 M
5  Articles
Is there any easy (moral & acceptable way) to break up?   11/2/2005

if there is can someone let me know or share experiences.. or is it always hard after long term relationships?


1 Comments, 94 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Why Does Love Have To Hurt   11/1/2005

You go through your life being abused and hurt and then you find the "Mr. Right". Instantly you know that he is everything that you have wanted and your "Knight In Shining Armor" You devote your whole life to him and forsake any other men and you think that you are the one and only one for him. Then you learn that you are not the one and only because he has another woman. You cry and ...


3 Comments, 286 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
rm_101101001 58 C
75  Articles
Would you join a group...   10/31/2005

Dear AdultFriendFinder members; <br> How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group, where the membership requirements are. That you must be willing to go with a current group member or the group’s moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...


1 Comments, 225 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
WetThang69 113 F
8  Articles
Bipolar Man?   10/30/2005

Met a wonderful man here on AdultFriendFinder. Thought things were great. Neither of us were looking for commitment (I thought), but a series of new, non-judgemental friends. That was all I ever wanted. <br> I was a little surprised, how speedily things advanced, friendship-wise. Particularily since he claimed strong feelings for me, far before I would admit to anything. Guess I belong ...


2 Comments, 231 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
queenbtch01 42 F
1  Article
broke up   10/29/2005

most of you know me as ihornyru72 that account was deleted by my ex boyfriend and that is what caused the break up we was in an open relationship you know he can play with others and i can play with others and if we liked a couple we swap or 3 somes whatever but now i find myself very pissed at him he had no reason to delete my account any suggestions for revenge " my new account ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
6love2lickclit9 44 M
1  Article
dont do it this way   10/28/2005

i told my wife that i was cheating on her while i was tripping so my mood kept on swinging and cause a four hour in depth discription of how i cheated and where and everything . i dont suggest it


0 Comments, 218 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
barabond 42 M
38  Articles
Things may seem bleak   10/27/2005

Things may seem bleak now but you never know what the future may hold for you and your ex. You may get back together someday. You may not. Either way it is better to let go of a faltering relationship while there is still some caring left between the two of you. If you play it out to the bitter end and leave your ex no choice but to hate you to get rid of you, you close the door to the ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score