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AdultFriendFinder mail?!   12/28/2003

Is it me or is anyone else having a problem with AdultFriendFinder mail? There have been several occasions where I have sent an email via AdultFriendFinder to a member and they never get it, or vise versa. I think AdultFriendFinder needs to add the members email, if they wanted them to, to the profile page. I am a silver member and it annoys me that my messages aren't going through. Just wondering if anyone has had this ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 51 Votes ,9.23 Score
The Age Dicrepancy Issue   12/27/2003

I a 20 year old woman and of an attractive figure. I have noticed that on the list of people viewing me, adding me to their hotlist, and winks, that most are of middle aged men. Now that isn't a problem, but those of them that reply to me and are interested... Why do they get all bent out of shape when I state that I'm not interested in that age bracket. Is not wanting to hop in the sack ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 49 Votes ,7.25 Score
rm_addictive22 55 M
2  Articles
If it sounds too good to be true.........   12/27/2003

It probably is! <br> The concept of this site is great. The actuality of it is not so great. My membership expires soon and I'll not be renewing. It seems like this site has been inundated with people hawking their websites rather than real people just looking for fun. <br> Maybe I am wrong but this has been my experience. YMMV. It was worth the $20 just to see ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
rm_addictive22 55 M
2  Articles
Anyone notice?   12/27/2003

I've noticed that all of the "hot" women seem to be Standard members. What a coincidence. Hot women who are dying for sex...but can't contact you. You have to contact them and provide an email address for them. Next thing you know you're directed to some site so they can "verify your age" using your credit card. What a joke. <br> Maybe if Standard members weren't allowed to ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 48 Votes ,8.84 Score
Life after 20 Years (Part 1)   12/26/2003

Prisoner for 20 years, I lived my life in the way you would expect. It really is not a way of life but, perhaps, a complete culture of its own. The only real world ties between you and life on the streets are the strings binding family and friends. For those without ties, in the real world, everyday is a long drawn out twilight. The loneliness finds you, even at you strongest moments. ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 15 Votes ,3.74 Score
pops1041 82 M
1  Article
answering ads   12/24/2003

I agree with the gentleman who was aggravated because women do not respond to e-mails. I can understand if the content is offensive, but, lets face it, some of the ladies' profiles are pretty graphic. It seems to me that a simple, "Thank you, I'm not interested.", would be better and a more courteous answer. Besides, if contact persists, one can always use the blocking feature.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 19 Votes ,7.21 Score
cragrat36 57 M
3  Articles
Standard Membership   12/23/2003

Why as a standard member, when someone pages me in Instant Messenger can't i view their profile.I can understand if I'm Browsing the members pages, but surely if someone pages me, I should be able to see what they look like before I reply to them.


0 Comments, 2 Views, 59 Votes ,9.61 Score
SweetSurprise3 68 F
16  Articles
Why is it...   12/22/2003

....that some people can not take no for an answer? I have gotten so many emails and they say if not interested just be honest, which I always am. So I write back telling them I'm sorry but, I am not interested or don't feel they are right for me. Then usually the begging starts and the follow up email asking why, or please just give me a chance. This really makes me feel very uncomfortable ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
read where my profile is   12/22/2003

I am sick of queers and bi men, either viewing my profile or approaching me. HELLO, it is in the section of men seeking women, NOT Men seeking MEN. I Do not find men attractive in any way, but if thats other peoples life then let them get on with it. Just do me a favour and dont bother me, it is women who i am looking for, nothing else.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
rm_gregbern 62 GC
1  Article
Re: Winks and the Hotlist   12/21/2003

I am part of a gay couple (2 men). I often get winked at and even sent a message from male members who, when I look at their profile, don't even mention the possibility of sex with men. What gives? I would never initiate communication with these members, because they are obviously not into the same things as we are. So I normally just ignore them. Should I go ahead and answer them ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 26 Votes ,5.40 Score
stuffme2 78 M
3  Articles
JUST FOLLOW THROUGH   12/21/2003

I'M A GOOD LOOKING Bi GUY WILLING TO ANSWER ALL MESSAGES HONESTLY. WHY IS IT THAT SOME PEOPLE I CORRESPOND WITH SEEM HOT AND READY TO MEET ME BUT END UP NEVER FINDING THE TIME TO DO SO. I DON'T EXPECT SEX AT THE FIRST MEETING. IF WE CLICK-FINE! IF NOT, I WON'T BE DISAPPOINTED, BUT AT LEAST GIVE ME A LOOKOVER. IF YOU'RE SELF CONSCIOUS ABOUT YOUR OWN LOOKS, I'LL NEVER PUT YOU DOWN. I'LL ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
rm_ftlgoose 44 M
1  Article
Face Pics   12/21/2003

Here's my rant and rave...I'm really getting sick of all the poeple who say on their profile that they want to see a face pic of you on your profile, but they do not have one of themselves. I understand that some people need to be discreet and that is completely fine. However, don't be a hypocrit.


0 Comments, 0 Views, 18 Votes ,7.49 Score
What a waste of MY MONEY   12/20/2003

Out of 40 standard members that I emailed I received 40 responses which I consider very good. Too bad they all linked me to a pay for porn site. If I can do it so can you AdultFriendFinder. Clean up your site! You say linking someone to a pay for porn site is reason to terminate their profile site. Well, when are you going to do something about it? If you need to hire someone I can do it for you. It ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 20 Votes ,7.21 Score
Sensual24U 72 C
3  Articles
If You Have a Brain, AdultFriendFinder Works!   12/20/2003

I just read several articles trashing this site and felt I had to respond. First of all, to those of you who get angry because you can't get what you want for free - GROW UP! When was the last time you got anything for free, let alone a service that puts you in touch with thousands of potential friends? I for one, don't mind at all paying for membership. To those of you who want some ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 28 Votes ,6.83 Score
catshot1 67 M
1  Article
Parting Shots   12/18/2003

For anyone who reads this prior to signing up on AdultFriendFinder, take my advise: Don't waste your money. After two stints here, all I can say is that I am very popular with homosexual men, prostitutes and people who have nothing better to do in life that hang out on the internet pretending to be someone else. What a total disappointment. <br> If anyone from AdultFriendFinder reads this and gives a ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 50 Votes ,8.12 Score
AdultFriendFinder deletes Sexual Interests, Activities, etc.   12/17/2003

This will definitely not be a long article. Why did AdultFriendFinder elect to discontinue the one section that makes it different from all the other sites? Being able to view the sexual interests, activities, etc. of someone was very helpful in making the choice of whether to contact that person or not.


0 Comments, 2 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
Is kissing a lost art?   12/17/2003

I know that people are tired of others ranting and raving but this has been bothering me for awhile. I love to kiss and be kissed. When I was seventeen, I had a boyfriend that could get me wet just by kissing me. Sometimes I think that I could have had several orgasms from his kisses. I know that some of you may think that is weird but it is true. So, when I met other guys I expected ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 13 Votes ,7.00 Score
Saturdaynite 52 M
1  Article
how about new free user supported page?   12/16/2003

having read about fraud, liars etc. I have an idea. How about a page where we can post the names of fgraudsters. Ok there is as risk if you have a bad break up your ex puts your name up, but since it always says"if you get fooled then it your own fault". well maybe that would be a fair point of view if we had somewhere we could maybe checj#k to see if their name are on a "take care" list. ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_cabernet1970 50 M
2  Articles
Re: to shave or not to shave   12/16/2003

It doesn't matter if you're shaved or not - you don't need to tell him up front unless he asks. Some men don't enjoy going down on a woman that's unshaved while others will simply go crazy for it. A few tips: <br> 1.If you're unshaved and he doesn't like it, ask him to shave you; it can be intimate and erotic foreplay. <br> 2. Get HIM to shave first (who says men should ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Posting fake cock pics!   12/15/2003

Let me say first off How pathetic! Although I am sure there are many out there I would like to point one particular 'man' out. Lets see he is 'hung' and a 'boy' and live in central us! Don't be fooled ladies! Obviously something is VERY wrong with this so called man. Luring women to him. The truly pathetic fact is that he can't even get his not even as big as his 'pics' dick hard!! ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,6.21 Score
Response to "Besieged by faggots"   12/15/2003

Here's what I think the deal is........ After constantly and diligently night after night after night thinking and writing wooing letters to the women these guys hope to hook up with, all they get in return is......nothing! A big, fat nothing!! If the women on this site would take 60 seconds of their precious time to respond to a message a guy sent them, (and I mean 'women', because ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Pay for porn sites   12/13/2003

I have been on the site for over a month with no luck at all. I understand the girl to guy ratio is about 200 to 1. Just on a whim and nothing to do I decided to email 40 girls with the same letter to see what kind of response I would receive. (Being a silver member I can do this; AdultFriendFinder says unlimited contact!) This was a well thought out letter; not a 1 or 2 liner. All of the ladies involved ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_screwy22la 37 M
2  Articles
Do girls really what nice guys?   12/13/2003

It seams to me that most girls don't. I mean if you meet a great guy once then make another date don't just sleep with him you still don't know him how can you. Even if you've talked online for a year you don't know if it's the real him or if he's acting to get in your pants. Lets face it it's easy lie online not that it's much harder in real life for some. The only way to get to know ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
N1gh7w4lk3r 46 M
2  Articles
Why do women not want gentlemen anymore?   12/12/2003

Why in the world do women not want gentlemen anymore? I have been on 6 dates in the last 3 mos and all of them have told me im too nice. How can you be too nice?


0 Comments, 2 Views, 35 Votes ,8.43 Score
Sirius5500 60 M
4  Articles
being approached by "faggots" and homosexuals   12/12/2003

I'm a bi guy, and my ad says I'm looking for men, women, and couples. Ninety percent of the responses I get are from guys whose profile says they are looking for women. Period. Nothing even about being bi curious. I even had one guy that wanted to suck my cock, have me fuck him in the ass, yet said he wasn't a faggot. You know, any guy who wants to suck cock and take it up the ass shouldn't ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 32 Votes ,3.71 Score
Banging Away - Help!!   12/11/2003

I have been involved in the lifestyle for a number of years, and too many of the men are forcing me to switch to women! Really, what does a guy think he is doing by banging away "ad nauseum"? Does he really believe that is how to please a woman? Ask any woman what she really likes, and getting pounded on for ten - fifteen minutes straight is at the bottom of the list. Sure, it is great ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 43 Votes ,8.38 Score
rm_montcopaguy 53 M
1  Article
Just Actually Show-up   12/11/2003

It fantastically amazing that there are actually players on AdultFriendFinder that make "dates" and consistently don't show....does anyone win the record for the most number of blow-offs from a single AdultFriendFinder member? How about..."most unique excuses"?


0 Comments, 13 Views, 35 Votes ,7.03 Score
FRAUD   12/9/2003

realize there are many here that aren't to serious about meeting anybody and "premeir" accounts tend to "weed out" the game players So you buy a "premier" account so you can write other members. That was nice and made sense, otherwise there would be no way this site could be kept running. so I got the silver membership, then after a while I start hearing that "standard" members can't ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 51 Votes ,8.57 Score
UshudCmeNow 57 C
1  Article
Real People?   12/9/2003

Are there any real people on AdultFriendFinder. I have been a standard member, gold and silver. Well now I am back to standard. I have found that there are very few real people on this site.(I have met a few wonderful people here) I am a woman looking for another woman to form a relationship with. I have had many contact me on the site but then I never hear from them again, or they want to play email ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
rm_1bigmuff 51 F
1  Article
Single Female Adds Turning Into Couples   12/8/2003

I am married & I am not looking for 3 some. I would like to meet women for one on one or girl groups, but a lot of the female adds have couple desriptions once you read the ads. If you & your man are looking for a girl put out an ad for the two of you. Just wandering


0 Comments, 17 Views, 19 Votes ,7.08 Score