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Third wheel 4/16/2007
I have a friend that seems to want to tag along right around
closing time. This guy is not real smooth or lucky with the
ladies. How does a person restrain him from interfereing
with any chances I have. He is a good friend and I do not want
to upset him by telling him how he is bringing me down.
1 Comments, 79 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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how? 4/11/2007
OK, how does a guy tell a woman no thanks gentily?
14 Comments, 198 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Have you ever noticed... 4/10/2007
Have you ever noticed that being part of this lifestyle
also means that we are I guess like elementary school teachers?
Allow me to elaborate, Our profile reads fairly plainly,
we arent into single guys, and if we want one, we will write..
Does this stop the piss poor readers from writing.. Hell
No!
On other sites, its fairly clear by posted ratios, if you
reply to letters ...
10 Comments, 240 Views,
16 Votes
,5.04 Score
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How exactly do you say it....? 4/9/2007
When faced with a situation of no-interest, how does one
say no without seeming rude or stuck-up? A simple "no
thanks" often leaves others feeling unwanted and
unattractive. Although it seems to be the most often used
method. I'm just curious, how would you feel if someone
said "no thanks" and nothing further? I would
assume most people would move on, but I'm sure there
are other reactions.
4 Comments, 104 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Why cant you get an answer! 4/5/2007
When sending messages why cant you get an answer even if
it is a NO Thanks??
It doesnt take much even if its a automated response to say
they only get back to people they are interested in.
14 Comments, 346 Views,
18 Votes
,3.53 Score
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why don't guys listen 3/28/2007
we ladies say no why can't guys listen
2 Comments, 173 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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how to say no 3/3/2007
sometimes i wonder wot part ono dont you fucking get? , i
meen no thanks , no, blody no just plain no, if i want ill
ask untill then NNNOOOO !...
2 Comments, 45 Views,
3 Votes
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it's not easy 2/12/2007
It is not vary easy to say no to sex when every talks about
it all the time.
0 Comments, 35 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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???? 1/29/2007
The only reason I can think of to say "No Thanks"
is if you knew for sure that he/she was HIV+. And then, I might
still if we had protection. I love sex.
5 Comments, 108 Views,
8 Votes
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damn the man 1/28/2007
sometimes i have trouble saying no....
0 Comments, 56 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Responses?? really? 1/25/2007
Love your profile!!!want to meet up? (when they ignore
everything in it)
Call me *****
hey wanna chat?
wanna fuck?
wanna send me your knickers?
are women supposed to respond to this?
18 Comments, 292 Views,
18 Votes
,4.63 Score
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How do you say no thanks politely to someone? 1/22/2007
nt
4 Comments, 74 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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saying no 1/22/2007
no one should ever keep it goin if they say no
1 Comments, 17 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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when to say no thanks 1/19/2007
why do some peolpe persist even after you decline there
message? no thanks means no thanks.
2 Comments, 58 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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The day I found saying 'no' more satisfying than going for it...! 1/17/2007
I recently had an ex-girlfriend come and stay with me for
a few nights, for a bit of a catch up, see the new house, and
so on. Now, this really was my first love, and though it didn't
work out, we'd had casual sex on countless occasions
during the 5 or 6 years since we broke up.
This time though, absolutely nothing happened. We've
known each other so well, that it almost felt ...
2 Comments, 74 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Honesty 1/13/2007
When someone asks you way you decline, how honest do you
get?
3 Comments, 60 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Not going to apologise for not saying 'no thanks' 1/13/2007
I have been on here for 2yrs now, had different profile information
from the fun light hearted to the serious dont mess with
me.
However on all of them I make it very clear what I am and am
not looking for. But yet this still doesnt stop some from
contacting me, again and again, and even sending abusive
messages calling me names.
In the beginning I used to reply to every ...
2 Comments, 176 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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Question... 1/10/2007
Do the females on this site really get so many messages a
day that saying "no thanks" to a guy would take
up too much time? I've sent out a decent amount of messages
through the email and also through the IM, and hardly ever
get a response of any sort. And my messages aren't immature
or poorly worded, either. Does anyone know the explaination
behind this?
6 Comments, 222 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Not as easy as just saying no 1/10/2007
I few months ago I was involved in a semi-srious relationship
with this girl, semi because I wasn't too serious about
it. What the situation came down to was quite a big deal,
and I'm sure some can sympathize with me. She asked
about our future together, not hers, not mine, OUR. She
had fantasies about getting married, and at my young age
that was a definite no. I broke it off as a result, ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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It does happen 1/9/2007
Well 2 years ago got a responce from a local couple, to meet
up after 1100pm to bed then we play. A third guy was to
contact me. Got the call met up with him, I parked at a strip
mall, He drove down the block lucky it was only 4 minute walk..
when I returned, when I got there there pictures looked
nothing like them and when she laid on the bed there was no
bed left. So thats when I said NO ...
1 Comments, 124 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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don't understand? 1/1/2007
Why is it when you state in your profile exactly what you
are looking for you end up with a lot of "what you want
and don't want", as in ours it clearly states"no
men or couples".It's not meant to be rude, but
still yet we recieve very unwanted pros.So please take
a moment an look at a profile, cause you might just be lookin'
in the wrong place an i'm sure were not the only ones
who have ...
2 Comments, 49 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Being rude 12/29/2006
How many times does one have to say "no thanks"
before he can be out right rude about it ?
1 Comments, 60 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Refusing advances from another person 12/26/2006
Trying to let a person down isn't always an easy thing.
What do you do if they don't take no for an answer? Or
if they keep emailing or IM-ing over and over even if you
ignore them? If you've talked to them before and decided
they weren't the one, how do you then get them to back
off?
It becomes a problem in this type of situation if they just
don't get it! Should you just get ...
5 Comments, 59 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Saying what? 12/21/2006
I just can't say no!
I can't wait to meet anyone now on here!
0 Comments, 31 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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females 12/21/2006
who here has said no thanks to a guy that was asking you to
hook up? would you say it to me?
5 Comments, 145 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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For the Guy's...(mainly) 12/19/2006
I had to say no (or did  to a pussy that I later found out the
girl (a roomate) had forgotten to remove a tampon. I realize
for her own sake that could be very toxic to her body... but
wow - and she's still alive today, but man have I never
smelled anything like that!
Whew!
D.
1 Comments, 132 Views,
0 Votes
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Thanks, but no thanks 12/19/2006
If a man actually takes the time to read my profile and sounds
like he's a decent guy, he'll get a polite "thanks,
but no thanks" with an explanation if I'm not
interested.
For those who don't take the time to read the profile
and send out "form letters, " they get absolutely
no response. I've been pretty honest about what I want
and don't want; I don't have time to play games. ...
2 Comments, 82 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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A different perspective 12/18/2006
Well I am new to this site as a paying member and recently
became a gold member. I had a profile on this site for years,
but never seemed to get anything except occasional men
or TV's. Since I always considered myself attractive
I probably overestimated what this site had to offer a guy
like me. Dont get me wrong, I dont think I am Prince Charming,
but I thought I was an above average ...
1 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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I can say "no" nicely, but...... 12/11/2006
I can decline an invite with tact and charm. However, I find
that, in most cases, no matter how nicely I say "no",
the party I am declining becomes upset and hurls insults.
For this reason, many times I simply do not reply to emails
(my auto-reply does say I rarely chat privately, so don't
expect it). When being propositioned in a chat room, especially
if his profile states he would not ...
5 Comments, 135 Views,
9 Votes
,6.20 Score
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Respect the other person's opinion/decision. 12/9/2006
Something that really irritates me after saying "I'm
not interested.", or "This isn't going
to work for me.", after meeting a man, is when they
insist that I give them a reason(s)!! This can't be
done without either 1) the liklihood that he'll be
offended or hurt, or 2) he tries to tell you how wrong you
are, or misinterpreted something he said or did, or, etc.,
etc., etc. Then you ...
2 Comments, 55 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score
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