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_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
Colitas!? - 6/9/2008

"On a dark desert highway, cool wind in my hair. Warm smell of colitas, rising up through the air."

Type it in colitas if you need to.

Ever smoke any colitas before having sex? ...

33 response(s), 44 votes
Dude_to_uxx 54 M
5  questions
AdultFriendFinder's New Home Page - 6/9/2008

Hey all....just checking to see what everyone thinks of AdultFriendFinder's new home page. It seems cleaner and easier to use to me.

14 response(s), 24 votes
Why man are less loyal inclined compare to woman? - 6/9/2008

Why man, generally, are less loyal inclined compare to woman? Is it because woman have more love feeling like in my earlier discussion? The survey done in Malaysia claims that in an life-time, the average man has 7 other partners, whereas the woman only has 1 other partner.

23 response(s), 28 votes
adorableblondee 45 C
1  question
How can i get "girl-on-girl" action? - 6/9/2008

I'm an attractive, 36 yr. old straight female. I'm very attracted to women sexually. I'm pretty social, however i'm too shy to hit on other women when i'm out in clubs/bars. I have had the good fortune of a few male buddies who have shared their women with me...but i wish i had the "balls to make it happen by myself". Any suggestions?

17 response(s), 31 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
Emails - 6/8/2008

I try to reply to every email I get. So why is it when I reply back to a guy and its not in his favor, I get a quick response back saying they are looking for someone with more experience. WTF is up with that? Should I just be ignore the ones I have no interests in?

15 response(s), 18 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
To those that have erotic pics posted.... - 6/8/2008

Have you ever thought about the fact that someone may be getting off to one of your pics? How does it make you feel? Has anyone told you that they've masturbated to your pics?

29 response(s), 37 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Winks, Hotlists, Bling, Email...what do you respond to? - 6/8/2008

For anyone...what type(s) of ways do you prefer to be acknowledged by others on the site? Which ones don't do anything for you? Why and why not?

18 response(s), 27 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Nice Pussy! - 6/8/2008

At a party, a girlfriend of mine told me that another woman saw her vagina in a bar restroom and told her that she had a "nice pussy". Now she did not respond to the woman but told myself and a few people listening that she hated the word "pussy".

The conversation deepened later on when I inquired to a few other girls if they had the same feelings about the word pussy too. Three of them ...

17 response(s), 27 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Ummm...What I meant to say was... - 6/8/2008

I posted this question a while ago but I thought it was fun and it got some great responses.

Soo...Have you ever blurted something out during the throws of passion that was wierd, embarrassing or horrifying to you and/or your partner(s)?

An "I can't believe I just said that." type moment. What was it...

9 response(s), 19 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Contradictions - 6/8/2008

In general, how do you feel about contradictory statements in profiles? For example: A profile that will state "No cock pics" but will have a fully nude shot as their main photo. Or, "No pics, No reply" when there are no photos at all. I understand that people have different reasons for what content they put in their profiles. Afterall, it's for them to do as they please. But what do you do when ...

8 response(s), 18 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Expectations of this website - 6/8/2008

What were your expectations when you became a member of this site and have they been fulfilled? Are you satisfied with the site thus far, frustrated, or somewhere in between?

5 response(s), 21 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Age range in profiles - 6/8/2008

I know it is up to the individual and what they want in a partner...comfort level, etc. And I understand, but does it bother anyone when they see someone's profile and you are one or two years (above or below) the age they are looking for and you're discounted right off the bat. I try to be as honest as possible but feel that I could lie about how old I am if I really wanted to. Is age really ...

6 response(s), 13 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Spalling...er, Spelling - 6/8/2008

How big a deal is it to people when they see misspellings in a profile, e-mail, etc.? For whatever reason it kind of bothers me. Just cureeous...

9 response(s), 20 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Got a guilty pleasure? - 6/8/2008

What's your guilty pleasure?

Could be anything...food, music, TV show, movie, artist, actor/actress, singer, sex, fantasy etc.

7 response(s), 15 votes
Nice_hands4you 50 M
39  questions
Favoriting someone's picture... - 6/8/2008

Are people notfied when someone on the "favorites" one their pictures?

2 response(s), 7 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
love - 6/8/2008

Don't you just LOVE to get people thinking for themselves lol

3 response(s), 4 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
understands - 6/8/2008

I really hope all concerned understands! i'm NOT the happiest with the way our country is run or the morals in this country, but its STILL the best in the whole wide world lol lol lol

5 response(s), 8 votes
rm_texrdnckjl 28 M
1  question
What's the biggest turn-on in bed? - 6/8/2008

Just curious of what others think.

7 response(s), 5 votes
rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
do you wink back .. ?? - 6/8/2008

i have winked & flirted with those whom i know & to those i feel i want to know ..

i've received many in return ..

question is ..

do we have to return those winks ?
...

16 response(s), 12 votes
Is circumcision cause for homosexuality - 6/8/2008

Is it true the resentment and fear of the mother having their babies circumcisized is important factor in the development of babies homosexuality when he grows up?

Is circumcision, in the unconscious, confused with the castration?

23 response(s), 40 votes
2_for_playtime 52 C
1  question
Throwing our first House Party - 6/8/2008

We are throwing our first house party this weekend and have a couple of questions. Obviously, having plenty of lubricants and condoms around is a given, but what about other things? Should we have food? If so, what kind? I have already planned on having an open bar, is this a good idea? Dang! What are we missing in the equation? (Please note: I am not usually this, ummm for lack of a better term, ...

10 response(s), 20 votes
rm_Igotsumfun4u 67 M
1  question
Is there a problem with my profile???? Women please respond. - 6/8/2008

Is there a problem with my profile???? Women please respond. I have been on and off this site for several years. My sucess in the early years was preety good. Now I have limited responces. Am I being to blunt? Saying to little? Too much? What? Please somwe of you women out there please give me a hint. Thanks for your help.

drumguy4u

13 response(s), 16 votes
Score and Points - 6/8/2008

What the difference? I got points and i can purhase blings, upgrade / extend membership etc... but what the "use of the score"? Is it just to show how active in the profile to post articles, votes, comments, etc?

I also notice that the score tend to decrease after some time I am not active. How do we prevent this? any ideas?

4 response(s), 7 votes
How to create/ cancel /modify blings? - 6/8/2008

How do I create my own bling and set them for free / sell for points? Can i cancel the blings existing in my profile? Can i modify my blings once i create them?

1 response(s), 9 votes
Office Sex - 6/8/2008

Do you like it or not?

11 response(s), 9 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Men - What Color Nail Polish Do You Like On Ladies? - 6/8/2008

Question for both men and ladies:

Men: What color nail polish do you like on ladies or none at all?

Ladies: What color nail polish do you normally wear?

I usually wear red on both my toes and nails!

15 response(s), 19 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
What Color(s) Is Your Bedrrom Wall? - 6/8/2008

My bedroom is lavender!

14 response(s), 13 votes
rm_Pincho674 46 C
2  questions
Do you like Anal sex? - 6/8/2008

During sex do you like to have Anal sex, if not does your partner ask you if you wanna have it?

10 response(s), 14 votes
What is the best position for maximum G-spot stimulation? - 6/7/2008

So, my ex has this friend who is bi and very sexually experienced.

She said that a position that facilitates great G-spot stimulation is for the woman to lay flat on her stomach then have the man enter her from above while he is upside down. That is his toward her head and his head toward her feet.

Has anyone tried this? What are your results and thoughts? ...


16 response(s), 15 votes
Is there any difference in blog post, article post and magazine post? - 6/7/2008

Is there any difference in blog post, article post and magazine post? I need to post some article but so far i only sent thru blog post. These are mostly helpful or interesting articles. I am interested to post something like health issues, or erotic stories, etc. :>

9 response(s), 7 votes