When I realized I preferred the company of other women, it never occurred to me how difficult one would actually be to obtain. Its not like you could take one look at a lady and know that shes into other ladies unless she literally dresses like a man or is covered in rainbows. So, Ive got my work cut out for me. Im sure all of the tall, muscular older women out there who are secure in their orientation have a mile-long waiting list, so I will gladly just take someone I have some chemistry with. Id prefer someone with experience as I have no idea what Im doing, but if we both end up fumbling in the dark, I imagine that could be pretty fun, too. Here are the boring stats: 5’1, b-cup, 135 pounds (working on it), and very, very tired. You’re not going to find a bunch of peppy selfies of me at brunch or rock climbing or clubbing, so I hope the one picture is enough. I just spent the last decade trying way too hard to make it work with someone. Forgive me for attempting to get laid via the comfort of my couch. Also, I am a basic member, so please bare with me if I am slow to message or respond. I flat-out cannot use the IM feature, nor can I view profiles.

My Ideal Person LOCAL. Also, at present, I am only looking for women (maybe a couple). I do not care about race, I prefer people over 30 but under 50, and I'd like it if you took care of yourself physically. I'm not shallow. I just don't do extremes. You can be fit, but a body builder would be too much. You can be thick, but it is possible to overdo that, too. Still, enthusiasm is the key to a good time. There are a lot of women out there who are used to others taking the lead. Especially if they’ve dated men. I won’t lie. I am one of them. Still, just about the worst thing that could happen is meeting someone who doesn’t make any moves and expects me to figure everything out on my own. I don’t mean to be crass, but I want to fuck, and my ideal person is simply someone who knows what they want, what they’re doing, and is not afraid to go after what feels good. I want someone who likes pussy instead of just merely being curious about it. In my head, she’s probably going to be older, well-kempt, and aggressively sexual. I don’t think that’s too much to ask for.

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